Gao Ziqi exposed the psychology of men and women in the new wedding night before marriage
On October 11, Gao Ziqi exposed a set of Korean wedding photos with fiancee Cai Lin on Weibo. Cai Lin, who is wearing a Chicoli skirt and a corolla, is gentle and beautiful, and Gao Ziqi, who is wearing a gauze hat and Hanbok, looks very handsome, attracting many netizens’ onlookers and sighs. “Beautiful like a Korean drama.”
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Since the beginning of the year, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi have gained a lot of blessings on transnational couples. In June, Gao Ziqi carefully prepared a surprise in Sanlitun, Beijing, and the warm and loving interaction made many people envious. Now that the two have finally become a positive result, they will hold a wedding in Taiyuan, China on the 14th of this month.
Near the wedding period, Gao Ziqi ridiculed himself, “If I can calm down as calm as in the photo … three days countdown!” The lines were full of expectations between the wedding. He and Cai Lin have also received sincere blessings from many netizens and fans for the past few days. Many fans also use classical poetry as a congratulatory word. I wish the two of them “holding their hands and old age, Qinse is in the royal, and the years are quiet.”
I believe that not only Gao Ziqi will be a little bit embarrassed before marriage, everyone will be nervous before marriage. And what is nervous? Probably the legendary new wedding night. Before the wedding, you may have been in bed together. Therefore, you should think that all the other party has already been palm. But will the wedding night that will make you embarrassed? For a couple, there will be a lot of imagination for the new wedding night, but the psychology of men and women is very different.
male
Doubt about your sex
According to the survey, Taiwanese men generally think that they must have a strong response to women in order to show that he is “very good and strong”, so subconsciously worry that the other party has an affair because of his dissatisfaction. No matter how irritating, you can’t get up.
Relief method
If you fail many times, you don’t have to rush to help him recover. Both sides take a break first to give him a chance to breathe; you can use other methods to express intimate relationships so that he knows that you are really satisfied with your relationship and rebuild his self -confidence.
female
The pressure caused by the fear of sex “expectation”
“Sexuality is not beautiful at all, only uncomfortable.” This is a topic that many handkerchiefs talk about the secrets of the boudoir. Because of the lack of sexual education, many people’s sexual knowledge comes from movies, television, or novels. In those worlds, sex is beautiful, but in fact, not everyone’s experience is the case; therefore, when you pass on your mouth, you will not only be not romantic, but even bring pain.
Some people think that sexual intercourse is just routine, even to satisfy men’s behavior. With such a concept, when women go to bed with sexual partners, they will naturally have a fear and disgust, and of course they will not have a complete and pleasant sex.
Another similar situation is disgusting organ. In the comic “White Bird Lizi”, the heroine Shiumuri Lizi is first -class, whether it is her face, or her figure. She also has a beautiful fantasy about falling in love and going to bed, but she feels that her organs are extremely ugly. The appearance of a big beauty is completely unsuitable, so it is disillusioned with sex. Although the plot is funny, it is very vividly expressed that the concept of young women’s sexual intercourse is full of contradictions. This kind of ugly organ is the same as the concept of sexual behavior that is very painful, making many women unable to enjoy sex frankly.
Relief method
Women’s concepts or stereotypes of sex are preconceived, if they are deep and solid, they will still cause psychological obstacles. At this time, the consideration and understanding of the other half became the key to solution.
The pressure on the inferiority of the body
Before facing sex, the first pressure faced was to worry about bad figures, unable to satisfy sexual partners, and even destroy the original relationship. But in real life, there are not many people who can be graceful like celebrities, so they must build their self -confidence and accept themselves.
Relief method
Men must give positive evaluation and encouragement to women’s anxiety and pressure. Men must understand that sex is not only the desire of physical and sensory, but also emotional communication; if he is not satisfied with his body, you can share this mood with women to compare the heart to relieve the pressure brought by the appearance.
