Sexual psychology: Women’s attitude towards “sex” is different from men, especially at these 4 o’clock
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Hello, Xiaojiu, I have been married for 2 years. I have a good relationship with my wife, but there is a problem that has always existed, that is, the life of the husband and wife is not very harmonious, or the concept is different.
I remember on Valentine’s Day, I bought her flowers after get off work, and the atmosphere was good. Originally, I wanted to fight iron and take care of it first, and then take a bath, but my wife had to say that it would not work. Be sure to bathe, order aromatherapy, and then match red wine and music. She often looks like this. When everything is ready, my sex is almost disappeared. I can’t say it …
I have experienced this kind of thing too many times. Is it really necessary for her to prepare so “full”?
1. What is the difference between men and women to treat “sex”?
“Sex” is an inherent instinct, and there are different “sexual concepts” between different gender.
The US medical and health website webmd analyzed the “sex differences” between men and women. Edward O. Laumann, the main author of “sexual behavior social organization: the sexual behavior of the United States” and the professor of sociology at the University of Chicago, said “women are more sensitive to the environment and atmosphere” and shared several important differences.
1. Men are more desire
Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist at the Florida University, found in a study that men’s sexuality has more natural and fantasy more frequently and diverse. Although the number of fantasies between men and women will decrease with age, men’s fantasies are still twice as many as women.
2. Women feel more complicated
What can women excite? It seems that even women themselves don’t understand.
Researcher at Northwestern University Makedith Chivers played videos for gay and heterosexual men and women, and recorded their excitement through measuring instruments. The results show that heterosexual men are more interested in men and women and women, and gays have more response to men and men.
The results of women’s experiments are surprising -almost the same reaction to the above three pictures.
3. The impulse of women is more likely to be affected
Roy Baumeister reviewed previous research, and found that in many aspects, women’s sexual attitude, behavior and desire were more affected by the environment than men. For example, women with higher education have higher acceptance of different sexual knowledge; women will also be affected by the attitude of the same age group when making some sexual decisions.
4. Women’s feelings are not so direct
Men and women have different ways to reach their desires. Esther Perl, a psychotherapist in New York City, said that women’s desires come more from the ears. For women, desire is more context, more subjective, and more emotional, and needs imagination and emotional stimuli. Men have almost no imagination, and desires are simpler and direct to them.
Due to the different views of men and women, there will be a certain “misunderstanding” between husband and wife. At this time, the most important thing is to establish a good communication, talk calmly and talk about sexual -related topics or problems. Do not blame and complain about each other, and compare each other with others, otherwise the situation will only be worse.
Second, sexually transmitted diseases need to be paid more attention!
Compared with the differences in concepts, sexually transmitting diseases are more worthy of our attention.
According to data released by the World Health Organization, among the 15-49 -year -old people around the world, more than 1 million new sexually transmitted diseases are issued every day. If not treated in time, it will bring serious chronic health problems.
There are 8 types of sexually transmitted diseases in my country’s legal key prevention, including syphilis, gonorrhea, AIDS, soft inferior, sexually transmitted lymph granuloma, non -gonococcal urethritis, condyloma acuminatum, and genital herpes.
syphilis
It can generally be divided into four stages: first phase of syphilis, second phase syphilis, invisible syphilis and late syphilis. If it is not treated in time, it may cause serious complications and even death.
gonorrhea
Most male patients have a sense of urination, purulent secretions, egg pain or swelling after one week of infection; women are manifested as dysuria, increased secretions, itching, and abnormal menstrual bleeding.
AIDS
Caused by human immune defect virus (HIV), it can attack the human immune system and let people gradually lose their ability to resist disease.
Soft downhill
Caused by Dukremobacterioxidthylisae infection, it is manifested in multiple pain ulcers in the private parts, and most of them are accompanied by groin lymph nodes of pyrophylogenic lesions.
Sexually transmitted lymph granuloma
Caused by chlamydia infection, the initial manifestation of the first symptoms such as the first person in private and local lymph nodes. With the development of the disease, symptoms such as skin swelling and rectal stenosis can be manifested.
Non -gonococcal urethritis
It is caused by chlamydia, coat, chlamydia, fungi, and trichomonas infections, which are more common and can be clinically asymptomatic.
Condyloma acuminatum and genital herpes
Caused by human papilloma virus (HPV) infection, the main manifestation of proliferative damage in the private parts is the main manifestation.
If you want to block the disease, start from cutting the transmission path.
People with sex should use condoms correctly, fix their partners, and conduct sexually transmitted disease examinations once a year. General projects include syphilis examination, primary infection examination, urethral examination, AIDS examination, etc.; Physical examinations; can also prevent diseases by vaccination and take specific drugs.
People have the right to pursue sex, but they also have to be responsible for the health of themselves and others. In order to enjoy it for a while, they discard the “bottom line”. The only thing that will eventually regret it will be themselves.Reference materials:
[1] SEX DRIVE: How Do Men and WOMEN Compare?, Medically Reviewewed by Brunilda Nazario, Webmd, August 22, 2013
[2] Common transmission of diseases and their treatment measures. Drugs and medication safety. 2017-07-13
[3] WHO claims that more than 1 million new sexually transmitted diseases are issued a day. Young people are worrying, China Cycle Magazine, 2019-07-07
